Blog

Tag: virtues

The thoughts that distort and give you life mapped on the tube

Barbara Kruger uses the language of publicity to draw attention to the manipulative power of advertising. Her trademark subversive tactics are played out in ‘Untitled (Tube Map)’, where the familiar imagery of the map is used to relate her own feelings about London, a city she loves and knows well.

I think it if fascinating, that for this artist, her feelings about London touch the thoughts that distort, and the thoughts that bring you life.  It says that fear, greed, anger, pride are just below the surface, as are generosity, kindness, humility and joy.  Why?  because when we live in close proximity, our shared common humanity comes to public shared consciousness.  In my experience, London seems to swing between fear and greed in cycles of decades.  It is one of the beauties of London, that its strengths and weaknesses are played out in human life.  See the full image for the cover of the tube map below.

POSTED 06.11.10 BY: ianmobsby | Comments (1)

“Slow to anger, abounding in love”

Since Aaron’s post about how transformative he’s been finding the virtues postures and practices, and the discussion it started about anger, I’ve been doing a bit of research. I’m troubled by Old Testament wrath / New Testament mercy ‘flip-side of God’ theology. I don’t believe God changed, ‘like shifting shadows’ as James says, nor that God has moods or gets provoked and vindictive.

So I looked up some Hebrew words for ‘anger’ used in the bible last week, and found that physical imagery is inherent in many – aph depicts flaring nostrils; charah and chemah are about heated indignation. God is often described (about forty instances across the Old Testament) roused to wrath of the nostril-flaring variety. This troubles me.

But something that puts God’s wrathful moments in context for me is the as-frequent phrase ‘slow to anger’, also written as ‘long-suffering’, and to me that deliberately illustrates exactly how I’d aspire to see myself deal with anger when it flares in me, in my true, most whole or healthy self, just as with moments of gluttony, selfishness, pride or apathy. Hence ‘be still and know’, ‘wait on the Lord’, and ‘flee from anger and bitterness’.

I think Jesus was doing this when he crouched and drew in the dust, instead of reacting at once to the people ready to stone the woman they’d caught in the middle of adulterous sex. I think he was asserting space for momentary, flared-up anger to diffuse, both theirs and possibly his own.

Also, the very fact that these are physical words presents their illustrative quality to me. I am not massively into turning everything into metaphor, but I do think it’s safe to say God is not being described to us as a being with actual nostrils to flare, or blood pressure to rise. Nor, I want to suggest, is angry action innate to God’s being – God is love. God is not justice, – God holds and wields all justice. But he does not simply hold and wield love. He is love.

I happen to agree with Christopher Jamison and the Desert Fathers he cites, that anger isn’t really a good sign of anything. I don’t think getting angry is ever really just about the thing that we think, in the moment, that it’s about. I think I, and all of us to a greater or lesser degree, are sitting on a big old keg of old hurts and injustices. And when we get angry about things in a particular instant, I think that keg of anger comes into play.

A couple of mooters pointed out to me the danger here of getting into dualistic territory: ‘anger = bad’; ‘getting frustrated = bad’. I’m glad to have the community round me to navigate this territory.

And righteous energy for a cause is true and a good thing – I’m a bit of a cause-carrier sometimes – but when it’s provoked by anger, I have to take time to think and to still that, until it has aired and become something more calm and constructive.

To stay in my anger is to sit in the murkier bits of my psychology. To feel it, acknowledge it, but to be slow to it and patient with it when it comes – these I think reflect a God of love – healthy care of myself and exploration of all my feelings and their roots, but also therefore enabling my outward actions to be wholly love.

This is ‘slow to anger’ – taking the space to consider both my own reaction, and also to consider whoever has provoked me as a whole human being, with more going on than I can justifiably feel irritated with. Love is not only for some human beings, according to what they’ve done. “To know all is to forgive all”. Even love for one person, a victim, I don’t believe should ever provoke us to retribution towards another. And that pause to bring us back to a place of complete love, I think, is what Jesus was doing when he wrote in the sand for a while.

POSTED 24.06.10 BY: grace | Comments (5)

Christ’s call for the conversion of heart and mind


In this Podcast of the Eucharist at the Moot Community on 13th June 2010, Vanessa Elston explores the theme of Christ’s call for the conversion of head and heart.  This homily is the second in the series exploring Moot’s proposal to develop its new monastic basis with some virtues, spiritual practices and postures.

Vanessa Elston is a member of the moot community, a teacher, a mother and a student of theology – who has substantial experience of being involved in the UK alternative worship and emerging church movements.  Vanessa, as a member of the Lounge Project Team, is currently helping us to explore the possibility of piloting a formation approach to Christian practices drawing on the wisdom of the twelve step programme.

subscribe to podcasts in itunes subscribing to podcasts through RSS feedother podcast subscribingpodcast player for your site

 
icon for podpress  Vanessa Elston [14:50m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

POSTED 13.06.10 BY: ianmobsby | Comments (3)

On what the point of virtues, practices and postures is.

Click here for more info about the proposal and related events.

I have been ruminating a little on the first discussion, a couple of weeks ago, on the virtues, practices and postures proposal, and I’d like to share some of my reflections.

Plato and Aristotle theorised about the make-up of the human person, and one of the models they came up with, which seems to have stood the test of time (not that that necessarily means anything, but let’s work with it for now) suggests that we have three main faculties: cognitive, conative and affective.

These can be understood as: cognitive – the thinking part of us; affective – our thoughts and emotions; conative – our drives, our strivings and tendencies, almost totally informed by the affective. I know I can relate to this basic outline – my active life is informed by both my thought-life and my emotional-life – and it started to connect with something else I heard recently.

One of the world’s most influential theologians, Jurgen Moltmann, recently spoke at a conference at Holy Trinity, Brompton about “being church in the power of the Holy Spirit”. Among very many other important (and no doubt relevant) things, he spoke of the great need we have for a good dose of orthopathy in current church practice. Never heard of that word? No, me neither. But he described it, basically, as ‘right feeling’.

We’ve all heard of orthodoxy (many of came to Moot to escape its tyranny), which is ‘right thinking’. Many of us with church backgrounds well know the importance often placed on this, generally to the exclusion of other things. We’ve probably all heard of orthodoxy too – many of us have been learning, and indeed prioritising, things coming under the rubric of “justice” (social action, political campaigning, protest marching, buying the Big Issue, etc, etc).

Orthodoxy relates most closely to a part of my self – my cognitive faculty. Orthopraxy relates most closely to my conative faculty. So where does orthopathy fit? Church culture and teaching, it occurs to me, have often neglected to bless and teach us with regard to our whole being. On a global scale, the church can be thought of as bipolar: one half has generally been concerned with “believing the right stuff”, and the other can crudely be described as prioritising the need to “do the right stuff”. But who’s got wisdom on “feeling the right stuff’ – orthopathy? Put simply, the monks, nuns and friars.

I’m sure you’ve heard it before but I’ll say it again: Moot is a fresh expression of church. I think that our new monastic focus, and the current discussion on virtues, practices and postures, is one of the things that really makes this true. This is because the proposal deals with the affective aspect of our being. We are a community seeking wholeness, integration. Believe it or not, the foundational idea of the proposal is that the Christian tradition actually has the resources to make this possible.

I’ve often wondered how to get my emotional life healthy, how to find healing so that I have less ridiculous outbursts, less of the bad kind of anger, less anxiety; I’ve also wanted to be more consistent in my ability to love, to do the right thing, to grow up/mature. The proposal says (although maybe not in so many words) that life is a journey of conversion of the whole person – cognitive, affective and conative.

My point is that what drives us can also be transformed – we know about the need to “think the right stuff”, or “do the right stuff”, but without addressing our thoughts and emotions, without finding healing and wholeness as people, we aren’t ever really going to change. The approach to spiritual growth we are advocating is holistic, which means that it is candid about the need to find inner freedom, as well as practice justice and have good theology.

Of course, psychotherapy has had to pick up the baton in the modern period because the church forgot the wisdom of the desert fathers and mothers. I believe it’s time we began to reclaim our heritage, and release some real life and liberation into the heart of our community. It will also save us vast amounts of money on therapy.

P.S. Brian McLaren’s new tome, A New Kind of Christianity is great. I could say loads about it – because I do think you should go and buy it at The Centre Bookshop on Lombard Street – but maybe in another post. If you have it, turn to pages 38-39.

POSTED 12.06.10 BY: Aaron Kennedy | Comments (10)

Finding happiness – reaching beyond the ego, the place of virtues, spiritual practices and postures

On the 5th Sunday of Easter 2010, Aaron Kennedy gave this homily exploring the emerging churches calling to promote forms of faith that reach beyond the ego. New monasticism constributes an ancient approach, using virtues, spiritual practices and postures.

For those who missed the service, please find the stations to reflect on below. Further we have put together a video metaphor for mooters to take away, contact Ian if you have not been given one of these.  So please do reflect on the stations below.  We reattach the proposal we are seeking to embed into the community.

Virtues-Stations

Virtues, Postures and Practices

 
icon for podpress  finding happiness through virtues, spiritual practices and postures [13:21m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

POSTED 02.05.10 BY: ianmobsby | Comments Off

Resources for our time questing with virtues, spiritual practices and postures


From the beginning of May, we will be exploring and seeking to implement some virtues, spiritual practices and postures in our weekly wednesday and sunday activities. Aaron has written a comprehensive proposal for this which will be available in the community section of this website. There are also a number of books we recommend, including Abbot Jamison’s Finding Happiness which digs deep with the whole area of virtues and spiritual practices. We highly recommend those leading worship services or weds evening activities getting your own copy. To get your own copy of this book, we will be selling a few copies through the bookstall at sunday services, and through the mootique.  For those leading services, we have bought two books for you to use – so please let Raewyn know if you need them.

For those involved in the community, who have not got a copy of the proposal, or want to comment on it, go to the community section of this site and click on the community forum (make sure you have logged in), where you can download a copy and make comments.

POSTED 25.04.10 BY: ianmobsby | Comments Off

Exploration

Exploration is a monthly discussion group for those with burning theological questions, itching metaphysical bug-bears and irresolvable philosophical conundrums. It exists as a place to ask, in our cynical and relativist age, whether we can yet make any coherent sense of the Christian story. Is it “true”? Does it “work”? If you’ve got questions to ask, and are prepared to consider those of others, this group is for you.

The group meets at St Mary Aldermary.

POSTED 16.04.10 BY: Aaron Kennedy | Comments Off

Things are changing at Moot … get involved and have your say.

At the second last community meeting (28 Feb 2010) Ian and I were tasked to research a possible set of virtues, spiritual practices and postures that could, after a period of consultation, be owned by the community as the practical application of the rhythm of life – not as a prescriptive, homogenising set of directives, but a flexible, personally applied set of guidelines. Well, the proposal is now in its second draft, and copies of it will be given out at the annual Community Council meeting on 25 April.

It has been fascinating and deeply resourcing to have spent time exploring and writing this with Ian. I’m very excited about the conversations that it will provoke over the next few months, and, of course, the potential benefits this proposal could bring us, personally and communally – if it we decide to adopt it. I say ‘if’ not because I don’t believe in it, or because I’m not entirely behind it – because I am; I say it because the whole idea of adopting a community-wide application of the rhythm of life should make us stop and think. The implications are, quite simply and without the slightest hyperbole, life changing.

However, according to those in the know, change like this doesn’t come cheaply. In fact, it is said by many that you have to need it so badly that you’re willing to consider nothing less than a changed consciousness – an entirely different way of being. This is encouraging, however, when you consider that Jesus seems to have had something to offer to those hungry for change in their lives – the weary and heavy burdened. I’m beginning to suspect again that he might have something to say to me.

There are a variety of discussions and events coming up when you will be able to familiarise yourself with the whole area spiritual practices, the need for something like this in Moot, and, also, add your voice. Such is the nature of our governance system that, as long as we have a quorum, decisions will be made at Community Council meetings, regardless of how many people turn up. However, when it comes time to actually make decisions about this, it will make all the difference if we’ve been engaging at depth with each other and know how we feel about the subject.

Look out for the spiffy new signpost image at the top of this post – it signifies a consultation event for the virtues, practices and postures proposal.

Events

Finding Happiness service (2 May)

Exploration (Wednesday nights)

POSTED 15.04.10 BY: Aaron Kennedy | Comments (4)

Podcast: Passions and Virtues

devilhomer.jpg On the 4th Sunday of Lent 2010, Ian Mobsby explores the theme of passions and virtues, and the need for inner freedom. Reflecting on the parable of the Prodigal Son and the story of Jesus going into the desert for 40 days, Ian explores the call for people to face their innerselves, their thinking and their sense of inner health. Moot is beginning its exploration as a New Monastic Community, to explore the need for some explicit spiritual practices, virtues and postures to assist people to go deeper with the Community’s Rhythm of Life.

If you neglect your inner self, then in extreme circumstances you will be held captive by your inner compulsions and addictions, which will feel like you are being controlled by an outer force preventing your autonomy. It will literally feel like you are being controlled by a demon. It is important that we face our need for inner freedom as well as outward liberation.

 
icon for podpress  Virtues and Passions [10:06m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

POSTED 27.03.10 BY: ianmobsby | Comments Off

Westminster Forum: is forgiveness a political virtue?


The next Westminster Forum will take place at 6.30pm on Tuesday 27th September in the Accord Rooms at St Matthew‚s Church in Westminster. Joining us in the discussions will be David Porter, Director, Centre for Contemporary Christianity in Ireland and Simon Keyes, director of St Ethelburga’s Centre for Reconciliation and Peace.

In what ways might forgiveness enrich the policy process? Is Œgrace‚ an ethical and therefore optional concept – or central to fair decision-making? Is it unrealistic? Why do we find it so difficult to put into practice what most people would agree are good ideas?

The Westminster Forum’s discussion takes place in the context of reflection and relationship and aims to consider what insights spirituality might shed on ethical dilemmas. It is open to members of all faiths and none and has a Christian foundation.

Admission is by invitation only. To receive an invitation, email: forum@ekklesia.co.uk

Jonathan Bartley
Westminster Forum

POSTED 08.08.05 BY: admin | Comments Off