Connected Minds
On September 18th, 2009 at 5:52 pm Kerry Dawkins said:
Thanks for this Mike. It was hard to watch this when you feel very lonely and isolated. Made me feel a bit like a basket case, but interesting. I think many people feel isolated like this.
On September 19th, 2009 at 7:19 am PeterR said:
Mike – Thanks for adding this to the picture. While I think it's right, and importantly right, we also need to see the other side. Solitude is very hard to find for urban people, and of course it's different from loneliness (which is all too easy to feel in the city). Silence too is hard to come by. But we've been learning as a community that we need silence and contemplation to find a deeper walk with God. And I don't think we should look down on solitude sought out as a way to silence – the Desert Mothers and Fathers were by and large solitary people, as are Carthusians today.There's an element of what the RSA piece proposes that risks endorsing the demand for constant chatter, constant input, which I recognise as one of my greater spiritual pathologies. I found myself turning on the radio while I was cooking, simply so that there is something to hear, rather than being quiet and heedful while I cooked. The two are not logically connected, but I am a little suspicious of an approach that would devalue quiet and prayer while extolling connection and chatter. We need both. What we don't need is loneliness, which is usually made more severe by the babble; loneliness that, as TS Eliott said of indifference, resembles society and solitude as death resembles life.
On September 19th, 2009 at 11:50 am Michael Radcliffe said:
You're both right.